Question. Hi My name is Rubika I am 24 years old and my boyfriend insists on having intercourse. I’m worried that when I get married, my husband will know that I’ve had sex in the past. I know that I won’t be able to marry my present boyfriend since we belong to different castes. I’ve heard that blood discharge occurs, the first time one has sex. Does this stop after the first time? Also, will my future husband be able to tell that I’ve had sex prior to marriage?
Answer. Hello Rubika Thanks for your mail At intercourse, the hymen splits and a small amount of bleeding occurs which stops and does not recur. If your husband turns out to be a snoop, he may find out. I suggest you avoid intercourse, there is plenty else in a loving relationship.